ted_subby’s BDSM Links

updated November 27, 2012 



The following are links to BDSM articles:



Ø Initiating a Discussion With a Vanilla Partner – an article I wrote, part 1 of 3


Ø Initiating a Discussion With a Vanilla Partner – part 2 of 3


Ø Initiating a Discussion With a Vanilla Partner – part 3 of 3


Ø BDSM to Cure Insomnia – an article I wrote


Ø Masocast -- talking with your vanilla partner – great podcast about this subject by a male sub




The following are links to BDSM websites which I have found to be interesting:



Ø FetLife – sort of a Facebook for BDSM with groups, pictures, and great information


Ø Madame Pontellier – free FemDom site with videos, informational blog posts, and fictional short stories


Ø Submissive Guide – free site updated daily with very useful information


Ø BDSM Library – thousands of free fictional BDSM short stories, searchable by categories so that you may only view ones with themes which fit your enjoyment


Ø Masocast – a very good podcast, the interviewer is very interesting and keeps things fast-paced


Ø Frugal Domme – a collection of very interesting articles


Ø Fabulous Foot Massages – a collection of Youtube videos of how to massage feet (good training for subs!)


Ø DreamLover Labs – home of the amazing DreamLover 2000 and related devices, just reading this site is a lot of fun (although I do not have any of these devices)


Ø 101 Ways to Make Your Slave Feel Owned – interesting article with good ideas


Ø Men Submit – relatively new FemDom community with forums and information


Ø She Makes the Rules – active community for Female Led Relationships, beware not to break the rules of the site


Ø Good Girl's Guide to FemDom – some advice for woman new to BDSM


Ø Nice Guy's Guide to BDSM – advice for men new to BDSM (mostly for male dominants)


Ø A Submissive's Journey – information and community


Ø Literotica – free erotic stories


Ø Island of Pain – interesting articles and information


Ø Slave Training – interesting basic freeware allowing a Master to control a long distance slave through an automated application


Ø Male Submission Art – large collection of photos and drawings of many types of male submission


Ø Slave Musings – well-written and active blog of a female slave


Ø Insights of a Foot Girl – well-written blog of a woman who greatly enjoys having her feet worshipped


Ø Tied Feet Guy – enjoyable very active blog focusing on pictures of guys in bondage and barefoot


Ø Respecting Mistress – enjoyable blog from a male sub in a Domestic Discipline dynamic


Ø Bemused Enlightenment – well-written female submissive blog, usually focusing on BDSM ideas and emotions


Ø Becoming a Mistress – well-written blog focusing on detailed tease and denial of her submissive husband


Ø Mistress Scarlett's Blog – written from a female dominant’s very sadistic and rather evil (in a good way) point of view detailing her horribly delightful treatment of her suffering submissive husband