In blog posts from a week or two ago I discussed my experiences with a new metal male chastity device. Mixed, although there was definitely some positive which I went into detail about (I still vividly remember the yearning!). Here is a summary of the current negatives/barriers:
1) Ring would move down the shaft causing eventual discomfort – I think this may have been fixed with my wife’s second belt creation looped inside the ring to hold it close to my waist, this worked for a day and night so it might be good;
2) Some chafing on the tender skin of the underside of my package – not sure what to do about this, maybe a soft very thin cloth could buffer between the ring and the skin;
3) (Biggest issue) With the belt on (#1 above) the cage sticks too far out when I wear my pants so, by my wife’s decision, I can’t go to work with it on (the device, not the pants!) – my wife and I will try to think about this, maybe the belt could loop through the cage portion to pull it closer to my body so that when I put pants and a girdle on the cage won’t stick out (?)
In any case, we are on a hiatus from using the device. I am open to whatever my wife wants to do whether that is a long term hiatus or trying something new with the device. It would be tough to just forget about it entirely based upon the strong emotions the device helped promote that one Saturday before the device became physically uncomfortable due to gravity.
What my wife has decided is to try something new which is male chastity without a device. We are not abstaining and there is a good amount of attention (much more so than if a device were on!) but there is no completion, if you catch my drift. Seven days is, if I recall correctly, the longest I have ever gone in the past 20+ years and today is the seventh day. I am not allowed to touch myself there at all (except for incidental like cleaning).
I believe that on a previous blog post I mentioned that my wife decided that we would be doing something for a full upcoming weekend, something which is not typically what I would enjoy (okay, that’s very much putting it mildly lol). She didn’t ask me, she told me. Will I become unintentionally grumpy as usual during this sort of thing? Damn I hope not. That weekend begins in 2 days and I am told that I will need to wait until then, Friday night. Or, to be more precise, I will need to wait until at least then.
You can bet your bottom dollar that I will be a good boy. Or at least try with all my ability.
That would be nine days. Not much at all for you male chastity veterans who may be reading this and probably scoffing at my whining lol. “You ain’t seen nothing yet!”, they would probably say.
I don’t know if male chastity without a device is significantly different from it with a device but I’m fine and not whining. Or not whining much anyway, except when my wife plays those tease games on me! … which I might add she has read recently on a web site someone had to send to her (that’d be me).
Actually, it warms my heart when my wife learns something new from the interwebs because if she learns it from me then who’s in charge? We talk a lot about BDSM regardless of that strange issue but it’s still a whole lot more fun for both of us for her to learn and decide something on her own. It’s all good!