So if I throw medium weight objects across the room in anger from being in a damn chastity device, is that supposed to happen?
I have been denied orgasm since Monday and then Friday afternoon was put into a metal chastity device, it is now Sunday morning. Only a day and a half, no big deal, right? Wrong.
I was joking about the throwing objects. In my fictional story Male Chastity Device the unwilling guy starts having new anger issues but I’m not a character in a story and I’m not feeling anything like that. There is no anger damn it! lol Really, none.
I’m feeling a need … no, I can’t call it a need because that might mean I would die if I don’t get it. It is more than a want, though.
I have a very deep yearning. I yearn!
One of my concerns about chastity is that it might cause sleep issues and that is a big potential red flag for me because of the negative effect that would have on my life (my wife agrees with this). I understand that it could take weeks to get used to having night time erections blocked and considering the so-far great aspects of this experience I’m willing to go through some difficult sleep issues as long as I don’t have a terrible sleep night when I have to work the next day. Last night I woke up at 2:30am and due to pushing against the cage for an hour off and on could not fall back asleep until 3:30 or so. That’s not too bad, and since it’s Sunday it’s not a problem, if I had to work today I could.
Then when I woke up again at 6:30 or so I wanted … yearned … to reach over to my wife but she was still asleep so I didn’t. I wanted to be a good boy. I stayed in bed awake for another hour just waiting for her because I yearned. Would my patience be rewarded? Once she woke up I did everything I could for her to accept my advances including the insidious ploy to not ask for sex with my words in any way. I rubbed, kissed, snuggled, proclaimed my love, etc.
To no avail. 🙁
My wife loves this new power she has over me and she really loves that I yearn for her. I am generally hot for my wife anyway although as most guys who are not in their 20s or 30s know after orgasm (without chastity ahead of time) there’s a day or two of let’s just say diminished interest. I have never yearned for her as much as I yearn now, except maybe equal to between times of seeing each other on weekends in our long distance relationship before we were married. Back then, though, I knew when my lust would be satiated. Now, I don’t know when!
My wife told me that if I was good today then maybe I would be released tonight. Maybe.
When she said maybe tonight that gave me the clear message that this morning was not happening. So I modified my tactics of not asking with my words.
I begged. I begged and begged and begged. Damn. Nothing. She knows that there wasn’t a bit of role-playing in my begging, yearning, or anything else. Any power exchange is much more enjoyable and real for me when there’s no role-playing involved.
My wife has told me that she does not in the least mind my begging and she won’t punish me for it (as I have seen other wives do if they don’t want to hear all of the nagging). I guess I’m thankful for that, but it’s not getting me anywhere.
It’s all good. It’s all good. It’s all good. In all seriousness, it is all good.
I will add more to this post later today or tonight.
Early afternoon update: My wife was out of the house with a friend and I literally forgot I was wearing a device for most of the time, except when I had to get up off the couch and away from the PC. Even if I didn’t have a device on I would not want to masturbate (well, I guess I would want to … and maybe I would but I wouldn’t orgasm I promise!) because it makes closeness with my wife much less enjoyable so I almost never orgasm except inside of her. So when she is gone there isn’t any thought of sex (well, unless I browse certain sites). Now that she is back the device is very much in play, even though she is not in the room with me.
Anyway. When she returned from being out my wife told me that we are going out to dinner with her friend and her husband. She didn’t call me to ask me and she didn’t tell her friend “Let me ask Ted and I will get back to you.” She told me. She never would have done that months ago before she become dominant to me.
Good for her! I am going to compliment her for taking from me what she wants. That is what I am here for! Thank you, sweetie!
I will update this post again later today or tonight.
Evening update: Freedom!! Except…
My wife walked up to me and with a loving look in her eyes put my face between her hands and told me that I was a very good slave this weekend. She then led me into the bedroom and … unlocked the chastity device!
As we got into bed together and she was touching me she said “You don’t think you’re getting sex tonight, do you?” Needless to say, I was aghast and clasped my hands together in begging and I did beg. She continued “I am just teasing you” which she continued to do. It felt amazingly great so I was thankful for that at least though my hands stayed clasped in begging.
This couldn’t be happening. I couldn’t go back in the cage. …And I didn’t. My wife ended our first session with a chastity device to a very happy ending for both of us. (Sweetie, I tried not to get too detailed but couldn’t help but have some detail).
I would call it a very successful first venture for both of us. My wife really seemed to enjoy the control and could really be ruthless. She told me that she had planned for it to come off tonight but she thought about making me wait longer, or much longer, but this was our first time.
On a mechanical note, the 2″ ring we have is apparently a bit too large. It was not easy for me to get into so I don’t know what smaller size would be right but over time the cage and ring were both pulled down the shaft by gravity and away from my body. Most of today half of my shaft was not even within the ring at all as the ring was a couple of inches away from my body. This meant that I did not fill out the cage which was not good and also my balls were being stretched which became somewhat uncomfortable, not good for longer term use (I don’t know if I could have worn it to work tomorrow).
We might try saran wrap or duct tape in the ring to get it to fit tighter.
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