I received my first proper spanking tonight. How on earth could I have gone my entire life without being spanked? (he said with wonder at how he could have been missing something so wonderful)
I recently happened upon a domestic discipline web site [http://learningdd.blogspot.com/2011/05/punishment-5…] which really turned me on, with me as the submissive and my wife as the dominant. I asked my wife to go through these procedures exactly and even bullet pointed them so she wouldn’t have to memorize them. I never want to top from the bottom like this but this was a special request to duplicate what is on that web site.
My wife used a heavy wooden spoon and went to town, following the guidelines from that site. I was surprised at how much it hurt after the blows had been raining down at 3/4 strength for a while, I don’t know why I get surprised at that (when feeling the crop or whip) but I guess it’s because it doesn’t hurt much at first.
She spanked a lot more than what was indicated because during breaks I commented when she asked me that it wasn’t feeling too bad once the blows were done (I didn’t want to continue to top from the bottom like this but she asked me and I really did want more, this was our first time with this and she wanted guidance).
Anyway, even after more whacks and even a few whacks from the crop the stinging seemed to go mostly away just a minute or two after it was all done.
But wait there’s more. A few minutes later when I tried to sit down at my PC I could feel a deeper pain in my butt which it turns out is slightly bruised. Even now hours later my butt is hurting somewhat.
It’s the gift which keeps on giving. (update: the bruises didn’t fully go away until 6 days later!)
In reading from that DD blog my wife had me purchase some capsaicin which she is going to apply to my butt some other night. I imagine that I will be feeling the sting for a couple of hours from what I read on the site. (update: kind of disappointing the first time but maybe we’ll try again later)
I know that most of y’all are advanced in BDSM way beyond your first spanking and I don’t know why it took so long for me to experience this. I guess I hadn’t asked because I didn’t think it would be much different from a whipping or cropping but it is different.
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